Logic and feelings, kids and LTRs

It’s all about their feelings ..and of course I mean women. We as men always need to take that into consideration. It does not matter how we feel most of the time. It’s about how she is feeling at any present moment. This perception of course makes us put in a double bind – because we can’t control her feelings. Someone might say that well yes, but we can influence her feelings, make her happy or unhappy – create bad or good emotional environment be a good or bad partner etc. After all, who does want to be an asshole, right? Still, what does that makes us? A puppet? A everlasting delivery-man that brings only happiness and good feelings? If she is feeling down – we ought to raise her mood. If she feels good- we shouldn’t share our worries. Men can’t have bad days. Maybe one in a month? Try this and see how quickly you’ll be put down by her. And what about them? Well they even have special days every month (it’s more like a week!) when they are socially expected to feel bad, angry, anxious and more irrational than usual. That is of course because of their menstrual cycles. It is socially acceptable. Because it’s all part of being a woman, isn’t it? As for men… we rather not share our feelings, not show our weaknesses, and never lower our shields. We are then being blamed of being cold and distant (yet, amazingly attractive to them at the same time!) but when we show a bit of our normal human non-alpha side in a no time they lose desire for our companionship. Isn’t that unfair? Isn’t that cruel? Yes and yes. But that’s all part of being a man. It is a very lonely journey indeed. But I personally prefer to be lonely and free rather than stuck in a castle made of gold (at best).

Women will often date the most alpha male in the group, if he is interested and willing to get caught in a relationship after several months she will try to change him into more submissive dormant beta-slave. If he allows this and move to being beta again – she’ll drop him and look for another man who is more alpha than her actual partner. She can even start another LTR with the other man and after year or two meet the first one which she dumped for being too weak – and notice that he has changed. She’ll see that he again is the alpha type while – no surprise there! – her current partner has been feminized again. Rational logic would suggest different actions but of course this is not how women act. She might even start to chase her old partner.. for the very same reason she did on the first place. And guess what? The very moment he will lower his shield- she’ll begin to lose her interest again. Yeah, there’s no logic in there. But women aren’t logical beasts, their actions are based upon their feelings and emotions. And they are changing from moment to moment. Seriously, being a female must be not only flowers and glory but also immense pain. And knowing that I must admit – I am very happy that I am a man.

Currently I think it is not possible to remain alpha all the time when being in LTR and living with a female partner. It is simply too much work whether it should be fun. Relationships should be fun, yeah? There might be some exceptions like being with a person who is significantly less intelligent (or significantly younger ;) when the Game is pretty easy to hold. But again – if you are older experienced and matured in terms of what you learned in life before you would not want to be serious with that kind of a partner. Being in a LTR and living together does not make any sense to me (only exception is when of course you want kids, but then IMO you stop being alpha by definition and become a father. And if you’re a good guy you must become beta-provider husband. I saw too many examples of this rule in action to not believe in it). If you’re rich or working abroad then of course you might remain more or less alpha, by not being present during the sad daily routine but then you aren’t there and you aren’t having a normal LTR, are you? And if you’re there – she’ll try to work on you like a pot made of clay. Just like she is working on her kid. Yeah, it might be your kid by your perception. But that will be verified very harshly once you get to the divorce stage. And you’ll get there if you won’t be up to her standards. Then you’ll see whose kid it is mostly. That’s how our current society and court system works.

To remain in your alpha frame rather easily you simply can’t live with a girl. Also, it does not make any sense to be in a exclusive LTR with just one girl. Why? There’s no special one. There are many out there. Play with them as much as you can for your own pleasure of doing so. Once you grew old (50-60?) then you might think about settling with the most valuable. And if not – no tragedy at all. Be healthy, take care of yourself and you’ll be happy enough on your own. Trust me on that one.

Headroom

Hello fellow MGTOWers. Today I wanted to share some interesting resources, that might be really useful for all of you.

First is the must-have book written by Esther Vilar (yes, a woman)

http://www.amazon.com/The-Manipulated-Man-Esther-Vilar/dp/1905177178

It is short and eye-opening. Sometimes really few females move forward and speak the truth (Feminism LOL anyone?) It is funny when you realise that they are the strong gender, not us. And we – albeit stronger physically – are like gentle giants with small brains – vulnerable and susceptible to emotional manipulation. Women probably are not able to feel higher feelings the same way as men do. Their development starts sooner than ours, but stops at some point in their lives and rarely goes forward. That is why you don’t have deep intellectual conversations with women outside of their specialisation zone. If there is any at all. A woman changes herself like chameleon mostly when she is changing her partners – she isn’t developing any valid character skills by herself. She is acting reactively, not pro-actively when it comes to herself – but the opposite happens to be true when it comes to her relation with men. Good example is that she will always have ready male-orbiter to exchange for her current partner and when the previous Number One founds out he is always like ‘I did not saw that coming’. Curious point. If you check it out, you will also love ‘Polygamous Sex‘ book by the same author.

Another book that I recommend is ‘Anatomy of female power: A masculinist dissection of matriarchy’ by Chinweizu. This one was even banned once in the United States. Another must have.

http://www.amazon.com/Anatomy-female-power-masculinist-dissection/dp/9782651052

Spring is coming, so make sure your knowledge regarding MGTOW, The Red Pill and all related to it is up to date and you are ready to avoid any possible problems connected with buzzing hormones. ;)

To end today on a more light-hearted note below I post few videos which were (I assume!) produced to be funny and warm-hearted, to show how cute being in a modern relationship is. Watch them closely. You’ll laugh but not because it’s such a nice and cool way of being in a relationship that has been portrayed- but how men are dominated by women. How weak they are. How they changed from being men to being their puppies.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2cH6FMRYf9A

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3FTGteat6U

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABbWgDWlvrs

If that is who you want to become, stop reading. Go and chase some unicorns. ;)

In the meantime, till the next time!

Best.

___

Datson.

Feminism, female violence and abundance of Blue Pills.

Hi everyone, Datson Horrenbrand here. I must admit that today I am a little bit frustrated. Our whole movement (or philosophy of living, or IDK what it really is?) is growing but the obstacles that are present in our current society is making us outsiders, and often loners. Thankfully there exist this marvel called the internet. ;) It makes the whole thing easier. I spent whole evening digging the MGTOW/RedPill community, watched several good videos and read plenty of articles on various websites- apparently from both sides of the ‘conflict’. Links below in the article.

I also saved few good quotes – if I forgot to add an author of the citation, please do not hesitate to contact me and I will happily update the info.
For the first one, the pseudo anti-feminist or whoever she is (found her through FeminismLOL)

http://judgybitch.com/2012/10/22/women-dont-build-invent-or-produce-anything-of-real-economic-social-or-political-value-but-we-shove-humans-out-our-vaginas-and-that-is-the-most-important-contribution-of-all-so-pay-me-motherfuc/

Women don’t build, invent or produce anything of real economic, social or political value BUT WE SHOVE HUMANS OUT OUR VAGINAS

Ok, you’re really a bitch.

Don’t agree. First of all, it is you who wanted a kid. Nobody asked you for it. You did it for your sole fucking pleasure and to be able to remain on a eternal holidays called by you ‘hard work’ when in fact you’re mostly sitting on a couch, eating out your husband earnings and becoming fat and lazy. While your beta husband strangely believes you are ‘raising up a kid’ the truth is you are too lazy to drive the kid to the kinder-garden because it’s raining and you don’t want to be stuck in traffic for 30mins. And the house is in the mess. But you’re fucking busy raising the kid. Yeah. Sure. You meant you’re lazy sitting on a couch surfing the internet. Face the facts. That’s how it looks in 90% of the examples. I experienced this myself and I wrote about it in my previous posts.

It’s pathetic. And such women can now master their power games now on two persons – a child and a husband. Wow, sometimes she even think of her husband as a kid. And see how badly his mother raised him, so she sometimes (on a daily basis) re-train and re-raise him to be her even better servant. She feel divine now. She is a mother. Everything should revolve around her now even more than before. it’s so fucked up.

I agree with Diana Davison here- this whole so-called ‘healthy marriage/family’ paradigm we currently live in… it is just terrible and fucking sick.

And yeah. World is over-populated. We don’t need more humans here.

So many women are so entitled and used to control men (their boyfriends/husbands mostly, but not only!) that when they encounter one that is not controlled by their sexual influences or emotional manipulation most of the times they don’t even know how to react. They try their old tricks which work on their husbands, but not on MGTOW. So what do they do? They call their husbands and complain to get rid of that annoying guy. And beta husbands are doing that. Even if they are your friends. They will drop you, because she said so. How fucking weak is that? Can we trust anyone besides others who also went MGTOW?

What the fuck is wrong with the human race? We don’t need alien invasion. Women are more than enough.

And no, having kids don’t erase the fact that you did not achieved anything in your life.

You say giving birth is what women bring into this world. Well. It’s like men saying ‘well I didn’t achieved anything, but I just had an ejaculation and impregnated a girl!’

Some people need to have kids because otherwise their life would make no sense. Some women need to give birth, because otherwise they would not have anything else to blame on the fact that they didn’t achieved anything in life.
Yeah. Keeping up the house and cooking. Including for yourself. How fucking hard and tough work is that. Try to go to job as a typical male 9-5 for your entire life, Monday-Friday and also be a provider for a kid and a wife. Deal with stressful job. And all. No, sure. Your fucking cooking dinner at home is definitely more stressful than that. And well let’s face it- most of women don’t even do that! Woman who cooks these days is being treated like pure gold. It’s just fucking cooking food! Men are better cooks, btw. 

You bring in new human beings? Well as studies show, no matter how you raise them and how good parents kids have they can either become rapists or artists. You never know. It’s playing Russian roulette.

As Diana Davison said:

Women don’t give a shit what men think, they only care about how other women perceive them in their own bizarre world of value. Women only compete with each other. They have no interest in competing with men because men are their servants, not their competition.

True. How many times I saw beta-husbands saying some well-thought intellectual shit with getting their wives impressed in mind. Yeah, sure. Often it was indeed well-thought intellectual insight. But she didn’t care what you said. She didn’t even notice your genius metaphor or perfect word-juggle. She don’t think of you as a great intellect. Or a guy full of wisdom. She only sees your pay-check while you give her money because she needs new make up cream.
Men also hit the wall. Of course, by living healthy and taking care of ourselves we can greatly extend our prime time. But I am no longer sure whether ‘the wall’ means anything for the women at all. After all, she can easily find beta chumps to feed and provide her everything even if she becomes fat, old and less pretty. Even if she is clearly toxic and crazy. Slaves to the vagina…

I was watching some clips from askluimarco, you can find his videos here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0j1fmK_ffs

Guy knows his stuff and I recommend you his feed.

Our current culture crafts women into self-indulgent, self-absorbed princesses who seek to find slave partners that will cater to their every whim. That’s what makes them un-likeable. At any time, women are free to make better choices. At that point, people will stop hating them.

It is really deep. They can get away with anything. For example. Once I went clubbing. I’ve meet a girl that once was very into me (but I was with somebody else back in the Blue Pill days, and she was also with somebody but the chemistry was there at least at that point) after I went Red Pill – years later – she contacted me again as apparently she split with her partner. We’ve meet but she was indifferent, fat and acting nasty. Testing me all the time. And expecting.. what exactly? For me to entertain her? Also she was clearly showing strong signs of toxicity – and I mean Borderline Personality Disorder here. Funny, huh?

So, to make a long story short- I’ve meet her after some time accidentally in one club. She was ignorant, rude and at one point after I’ve made a humorous comment that ‘at least she lost some weight’ (because lol she did- new boyfriend, so she at least tried to create impression of being somebody worthy) she went practically mad. She hit me in the head, started to showing ‘fuck off’s’ to me and went away.

Now, it was middle of the night the club was packed and her hit wasn’t life threatening of course but it also wasn’t a ‘humorous pat on the head’. I could feel the energy and the message. Guess what? I hit her back. Of course making sure that it would be much lighter and all but that she would not get away with her action just like that. How many times men must face nasty comments, being criticized and even physical violence from a women? When last time did you heard a story about female violence in the media? Oh yeah, I don’t remember it either. Because they are the ‘weak gender’. Yeah, sure.

Just stop and think for a second. The moment something like that happens where men can go and complain? They will be ridiculed in an instant not only by women but also by men. Yet, women scream about equality. And the moment you tell story like that from the club there’s already a pack of beta-men shouting that I am not the victim or that I wasn’t acting in self defence (per se) but that I am aggressive and should be locked in.

The saddest part is that they can get away with anything. That girl was dumped by her previous BF probably as he after many years finally realised how bad person she was (red pill, maybe?) but she easily could find another provider, happy for that harpy to ‘be’ with him. It is unimaginable to me. Men need to wake the fuck up. Right now. Women scream about equality, but they passed that mark long time ago. They want more power. And they know how blind we are. They know how we cherish them and believe they are somewhat better than us. They aren’t. And no, they aren’t our mummies – which often – were bad mothers anyway.
When a woman cry, she comes to her man for being cared of, to get an intimacy moment and a rush of oxytocin.

When a men cry, we must hide it from the woman to not show her our ‘weakness’. We are lonely as fuck. Much, much more than women. It’s not bragging, it’s just a fact.

So what alternative we have? No sex? Again great point from Diana Davison here:

Some rapes are extremely violent, leaving women beaten and in hospital with damage to their reproductive organs. These crimes are not just rapes, they are brutal physical assaults that never go unreported and no one laughs. A man can end up with lifelong damage from getting kicked in the groin yet this is comedy to women.

Yet, in our society huge mentality exists where even men are standing in front-lines vowing to bring ‘gender equality’. What equality? You mean bring on the ever-increasing women dominance and over-usage of power in the gender relations? You are just serving them, idiots! They are using you.

How many single men do you know? As for me, I know barely a few.

Most of them are chained like little puppies to their girlfriends without even realising how many Blue Pills are being fed to them daily.

The few that remain single are in the ‘single’ sphere as by accident, of course. Usually a terrific tragedy which means being cheated by their ex-gf.. they are lost, lonely and unable to live their lives without a women ‘partner’. So they are desperately looking for another one. Some of them ‘lost hope’ being sucked into feeling of being inadequate, or else.

Then there’s one more that I know, a typical ‘player’ – kind of PUA guy, who just looks for sex. He isn’t 100% MGTOW, and I am not sure about his Red Pills supply.

But you get my point. That’s it. The rest of the men I know are being Blue from the toes to the head.

It’s really a tragedy.

And what we face is even more tragic, because for MGTOW there’s really no coming back. Think about this for a moment. After all this, gaining the whole knowledge and landing on this website here. Could you happily get back to being in a relationship with a woman, just like in the old ways? If yes, then how? And what drugs would you use to numb yourself from the truth? ;)

I, of course, still enjoy sex and intimacy/physical closeness because I am a human being. But I can’t take the risks. That’s why vasectomy is the only choice to put a wall between me and a loop on my neck that some girl might want to put called pregnancy. It will protect me practically but in theory I would be still feeling that sexual drive and longing after intimacy. And the knowledge that I will never get it from a women in the way they can get it from us is still a sad realisation.

Now think for a second – maybe some people becoming gays do this because they know a woman would never love them in the same way as a man? For some of them it must be the true reason for sure.
Feminism LOL. I love her brain. ;) Also she reminds me of my ex. She is very similar in her looks. Funny coincidence. It’s good that finally some girl is speaking out the truth.
And she’s right. What’s her agenda? Maybe in every group of people there’s one black sheep. She might be a black sheep for other women, but to me that’s the whitest black sheep I have ever seen.

I hugely recommend you to read on and subscribe to her feed (of course, she gathered fairly big crowd very quickly- that’s showing how men are addicted to women – and naturally she admitted to not trust her per se- so I would not ;) )

http://www.canadiancock.org/2014/03/22/honey-i-love-you-lets-get-divorced/#more-78

She is very insightful and she knows what she is talking about. I feel she is on our side. She recommends not going back to traditionalist world but again, that would require women completely changing who they are. Almost impossible in regards how current power dynamics between genders looks like?

The man is the head of the house but the woman is the neck and she can turn the head any way she wants.

Again, true words.

Women’s beauty inhibits their growth. From 14-24 there is no pressure put on them to do anything other than look pretty. Because of this most do not develop any other skills. They rely solely on their beauty to prosper.

I don’t think the depression comes from losing their beauty it comes from the moment of realization that they have no skills and are a horrible person. The depression comes from knowing the fact that now they must work for a living. This is why women get so much surgery to stay young. And women who don’t have tits get them so they don’t feel left out of this non-growth period.

True. What for someone would develop any useful set of skills if they posses a vagina and the knowledge how to use that ‘power’? But remember, that power is a given skill. A president means nothing without his voters. A Mafia boss means nothing without his soldiers. I believe we can turn away our given power to women. But more men must realise what is happening. Women want more. The whole stigma about rape, feminism and using sex as a weapon. They know this is their momentum, that XXI century changed the dynamics. And they are pushing forward. Of course, with a huge amount of Blue Pill men fighting for their very own goals.

Rape stigma. This is huge and still growing. Ever heard about Bill Cosby, Julian Assange or Strauss-Kahn? How easy is to kill a life-long worth of reputation in one instance? The last person was even proven innocent by the court but his political career is more or less finished. Because some women claimed something. This is how strong they are.

Feminism LOL1 

It’s not just the financial abuse of men that needs to be dealt with (and men’s pride over how much money they can throw away on female whims) it’s the underlying attitude that women are divine and men are base animals. Weddings are twisted displays of female worship but with or without the wedding they still control men and make them their errand boys. Women need to grow the fuck up and learn that survival is something they need to participate in instead of being a protected class. Participating fully in life is a gift you give yourself.

As Churchill said: “Nothing in life is so exhilarating as to be shot at without result.”?

I can’t agree more.

And why I am sad? If a current authorities for younger male generation are advising shit like ‘kill our male pride’ I am seriously worried.

Terry Crews

“My message to all men is that you have to kill pride,”

I couldn’t believed it when I read about it. Check it out down below:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/16/terry-crews-feminism-male-pride-dame-interview_n_6877588.html

What about women’s pride?

‘Crews also summed up why men should feel empowered to engage with feminism’

Terry sorry for being direct but what the fuck are you talking about, dude? 

Ok. Wait. He wrote a book about.. true manhood.

http://www.amazon.com/Manhood-Better-Man-Just-Live/dp/0804178054?

Ohh sweet Jesus. What a great cover. Best example Blue Pill beta can hide under a big body. 

Ok. I end up here. You come up with your own conclusions. So, as for now- no solution. I am very grateful for all good souls out there that are not afraid to spoke the truth. Thanks for your time and see you soon.

Dating scene, chasing sex and romance.

“Women’s strength is in their perceived weakness. Men’s weakness is in their perceived strength.”

Recently I was considering how the whole dating scene is working.

The subject is deep as a rabbit hole. Or other holes that you might think of.

First of all the very serious mistake most men do nowadays is to date girls that don’t find them attractive. Society tells us that (romantic comedies, poems, books etc.) you should chase the girl that doesn’t seem to be interested in you in order to raise her interest level. Well that simply does not work. Stop doing that and wasting your time.

Women are like cats- when you chase a cat, it will run away from you.

That is the first paradigm. Second one is that men tend to date women solely to get into their panties. Just to get laid. To have sex. That also does not work. Because women can feel when men aren’t interested in who they are and just want to get laid. Stop doing that. It is a bad practice.

As for me, if I want to have sex- I choose between girls that I am really interested in. So that becomes something more as just chasing someone to have intimate relation with. I mean I am really interested in who they are, what is their story and so on. I am interested in the person as a whole. That makes the whole romance easy-going, natural and working out good. I am not wasting my time to date women who aren’t interested in me either and when sexual attraction isn’t mutual. Dating is a numbers game. Most of girls you will meet would not be attracted to you sexually. Deal with it and move on.

Still, if you’re only after sex and not the emotional content then stop and think about it.

You need to pay every time- when you calculate things it turns up that you need to pay 200/300 EUR/USD/GBP (average) anyway in order to get to the sexual part. It is just the difference whether it will be 2-3 dates (even when you pay for your own drinks and she pays for her) + the time and effort needed to make it work – or whether you call a higher quality call-girl and pay up-front. After all, ’emotional content’ will be there if you hook up with the same call-girl several times anyway. ;)

That is what most of men nowadays are frustrated about. They think they need to date and spend money and time just to get to girl panties. That’s the main problem– they aren’t interested in her as a person, just want to get to the sex part. Well if you just want sex then realize you need to pay anyway.

Why frustrate yourself and waste your time on a normal casual girl – go for high quality call girl. You need to pay for it anyway.

If you want a normal romance, then find a girl who also find you attractive – it makes the whole thing more easy and both of you will get something out of it. A nice experience that you can remember when you will be old.

All problems arrive because men do not understand women. They want them to be logical, when they simply can’t. Women are emotional creatures. Men operate under logic and reasoning. You need to understand this principle in order to be succesfull with them. It’s as simple as that.

1. You will never succeed with women if all you want from them is just sex. They might be unreasonable, but they are not stupid.
2. If you are only after sex– it’s better to get it up-front as a service, rather than date and chase girls with whom you are obsessed with because it would not work out (or it would require immense amount of work, which does not make it any more plausible solution long-term)
3. If you are truly interested in particular girl and she reciprocates your interest- it makes the whole thing easy.

Additional points:

1. You need to learn how to be a confident, masculine alpha-guy who knows how to deal with girls. If you will be beta-male you will never make any girl wanting to hook up with you (exception: she will be weird/toxic/dominant type of a girl)

2. Becoming alpha- that comes with time and practice- the more you try, the better you are at it. As with every other skill. Still it is not for everyone. Some men just can’t get it right. They are too weak, and too feminine. That is again not your problem- you need to think about yourself.

3. The most important part. Stop being addicted to having sex. Because then women will use it against you. Sex can be and is being used as a weapon by women. But only with men who don’t know how that weapon works. Sexual relationship is only the natural outcome of the whole romance/dating process when you are truly interested in other person and know how to handle things. Then it happens naturally and effortlessly because both of you want to know each other better. It is not the main point of the whole relation/romance.

Bad news.

Hi guys, just received an update from VasalGel developers. And it looks bad.

Check the link yourself.

http://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vasalgel–The-race-towards-manufacturing.html?soid=1109766611768&aid=r7I-3Qu0nLQ

Just as I’ve thought. :(

‘What does this mean? Unfortunately, it’s looking pretty unlikely that a clinical trial will be enrolling men before the end of the year as hoped. We anticipate the clinical trial will be pushed off to early 2016 to allow time for all of the necessary steps.’

And we are talking about U.S. market…

 ‘So that means waiting till VasalGel is out on the market in 2018 and beyond. Yes, we wish it were sooner– but we want to be sure you have the most up to date information to be able to make plans for your reproductive healthcare.’

2018?! So it will probably hit the European markets around 2020. If only.

Fuck no. Vasectomy remains as the only choice.

Couples, love songs & respect.

With a slight delay this time, but new post is here. I’ve been busy recently. ;)

Women clearly and easily distinguish between beta and alpha males. They got some kind of magical inner radar and sense this every time.. naah. It’s terribly obvious. I can sense a beta too. Somehow they treating beta males as an extension of their power. Like they were their mothers, that is because beta males are acting with women just like they would with their mummies.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZdO40p2AWQ

I recently stumbled upon this video (thanks Reddit!) It’s fascinating! What on the surface looks like lovely happy couples enjoying a fun experiment together ..is apparently something else. If only you watch little closer you can easily see how the power play and relation dynamics look between them. How they are arguing. In a movie that is just several minutes long. And tell me, how many of you – before Red Pill – would think ‘oh that’s so nice, they are arguing just like me and my GF’?

This short example is the best description of why I went MGTOW, and of course- it is almost impossible to describe this to usual beta male or his girlfriend. Albeit she might get the hint but eventually he will feel threatened, or in danger and start ‘defending’ the relationship from such crazy unsupported ideas that are attacking his status quo-that is- switching to his White Knight side.

I spoke with women who are in such relationships. With ‘perfect’ beta male providers. And they do indeed view their husbands like they were raising them after their mothers. They have no respect for them. Maybe only for their money, lol. They were complaining all the time how their husbands are lacking-when they were working for their wives and kids. And we are talking about good women, okay? The ones who at least trying to be good mothers and good wives, whatever that means. I am scared to think how really hateful and non-loyal towards their unsuspecting husbands must more ‘less genuine women’ be. But, that is the outcome – when there is no respect in relation and only ‘love’. Which, as it turns out, is a empty word. For women. Who could believe that?

I’d like to use a quote from ‘Rational Male’ by Rolo Tomassi here:

“The real test for a man is how he lives with himself, alone. Precious few men ever truly allow themselves to be alone and learn real independence and self-reliance. The vast majority of guys (see Betas), particularly in western culture, tend to transition from mother to wife with little or no intermission between. For the most part they subscribe to the feminine imperative, becoming serial monogamists going from LTR to LTR until they ‘settle’ without ever having learned and matured into how to interact as an adult.”

Why there is so much love songs everywhere? Movies about love? Romantic comedies?

Maybe otherwise we would need to realise that we are just using each other? That women just want to reproduce and they don’t care (about anything except themselves) – and we don’t care either! So they must stick with Blue Pill males?
When I was younger I thought that there is no sense to be with someone for whom you are not ‘the whole world’ (I still think like that, in a way). Then I realised that this is not how women perceive men and love. Men are true romantics as Rolo Tomassi stated.

Women are with us because that suits them. They don’t go into a relationship with men with a mindset ‘what I can bring in, how I can enrich his life?’ (That is what men do! Until we realise the bluff and stop!) They go in thinking ‘what I can GET OUT of this for ME?’

Women need men. They need weak men to dominate so they will provide for them and their kids (yes, they will ‘love’ them back for this which means basically nothing :D ), and they need dominant alphas to have sex with who they can respect. Which one you want to be?

They don’t love us for who we are. When woman is in love she really feels that, the chemical high and all, but when it wears off- then she starts to try and change the man.

You can say, well maybe at least these beta males in LTR in their life-long provider roles are happy because this is a very stable and calm system? Wrong. Well, maybe if someone enjoys being regularly humiliated through various ways by his dominating wives / LTR partners- then sure. Women take us for granted, gentlemen. It is worth mentioning that weak men want to hold onto it but marriage does not exclude anybody from sexual market. Besides, in most cases after several years you get sex once per month. Or less. It is truly a drying lake for a man. It might be a nice lake for a boy, though. Think about it.

Also, too much stagnation causes inability to adapt! The relationships I examined in my life were always some twisted form of mutual addiction showing signs opposite to independence. Co-dependence in worst form, because usually it was the male who was devastated when his women ‘fell out of love’. Not the female.

And, my dear readers, do not forget that to be male is to challenge, grow, embrace change!

Strive to demand more from yourself than anyone else you know!

Women may love the Beta, but they only respect the Alpha.

Someone said “you can either understand women or you can love them. Once you understand them, you can no longer love them”. Probably it is true. Or rather: you simply stop believing in love.

As a drug- it works. But we all know what happens when you ‘fall in love’ and allow these chemicals to take decisions instead of you. Two years later you are with a pregnant girl, in a different city and ruined career. No more freedom. No more nothing. Just a golden chain around your neck – if you are ‘lucky’. Because it does not have to be made from gold. ;)

That is why I don’t want kids, too. And I will go for vasectomy because VasaGel will hit the market maybe in 4-5 years. If only. I can’t take the risks. Done correctly, parenting means the story of your children and your wife overtakes the story of you. And some folk like being the star of their own movie.

No turning back, loneliness and umbilical cord.

MGTOW is a one way road. You just can’t go back. It’s like taking LSD for the first time. You’ll never forget. This is clear enough.

But what’s the end game? Where does it lead to? Now, to make this clear. I do not agree with the statement that somehow MGTOW means sexual celibacy. How dumb is that? What’s wrong with sex? Do you not enjoy sex? Do you think you can turn off strongest second drive of life (the prime one being survival instinct?) and just swim against the current rather than with it? Why would you do that?

That just sounds stupid to me. Why I should put some kind of weird wall between me and women, me and sex, me and my needs (as a male I see sex both as a need and as a pleasant activity I love to participate in ;) ). Why quit from it? Sex is beautiful. Women can be too, just don’t act like you need them. Or that you are their servant. And sex? You will quit it anyway, depending on your health condition – whether it will be when you hit 50s or 60s does not matter, so why speed up the inevitable? To show you are revolting… against what? And who cares?

Again – if someone wants and feels this is his way then sure, for me this whole sexual celibacy thing has completely nothing with being a proper man and is just showing being bound by the problem in the same way as a typical beta male viewing his wife as his highness. You are still bound – just from the other side.

Another sad truth – the more we grew older, the more we grew apart from each other. From our colleagues, friends, even partners. We just care less and less about others and mostly about ourselves. Yet there’s everywhere that silly notion that we should first care about others, and not ourselves. Nobody does that and it doesn’t even works because if you don’t know how to take care of yourself certainly you would not help anybody else either. And I assume both genders know about it but somehow women got it easier (again!) because they can choose from a bigger set of theoretical partners. Another thing is the SMV. And the famous ‘Wall’. If you look at it, time is on our side and the only thing you -as a man- need to concentrate is to how increase your wealth. This way, you will never lose prospects of potential young and fresh sexual partners. Again – who would want to sleep with a 45 year old woman if you can have the 23yo? The ‘experience’ myth is nothing but a myth, you can have 45yo which is cold fish and you can have hot and passionate 23yo girl who knows more than the older gal. Except personal fetishes and fantasies- this is again going with the nature. And you can’t cheat the nature.
Again, I understand that some of men are pissed of by the need of chasing women. Well, as I’ve said they are pissed of because they are doing it wrong. ;) You can say, why would you need to spend 300 USD,GBP,EUR (or whatever local currency) on dating a girl if for that price you can get a high-profile girlfriend experience with a call-girl? Oh, I see. You want ’emotional connection’. Which is what, exactly? Again – after several visits to the same girl I bet you will have some kind of connection with her. Think about it.

Maybe it’s that kind of longing after your mother- when you get to the bottom of it you get a nice, warm uterus and the safety that comes with it (sic!). You need to cut the umbilical cord with your mother. It is time to let her go. She will always tell you what to do. You just need to stop listening. She will never change. It is not your fault. You do not owe her anything. It was her choice to have you. You paid up your debt when being completely vulnerable and under her jurisdiction for probably at least 20 years. It is still tough especially under current economic situation over the world but do anything you can to move away from your parents. I did it when I was 21yo and it required effort to some degree but again I am not sure how much harder it would be for me to break through from all that social and childhood stigma if the people who implanted all their BS into me were still around. There’s also big chance that your father was caught in the common pregnancy pit in the past or he might be a classic beta male. Up to now you should know that. You need to consider that. The question is – who do you want to become?

I’ve recently stumbled upon a channel of this girl, and well the story she presents is just scary. The girlfriend hired a killer (or that’s what she thought) and wanted to kill her partner and after all came up, he was even considering helping her. To get a lawyer and so on. That’s what happens when you trust women. Check it out.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SddZvNQOuFw

So again the question is whether MGTOW and Red Pill equals loneliness? For sure there is some degree to it, but again – I don’t think I would be able to forget about it all and just start being a typical beta provider again hoping that this would last. That yet another relationship somehow would be better- especially if I don’t want kids. I have my eyes open for quality women, but you can’t cheat the nature and their nature is just not the thing I am looking for to have my life being fulfilled.

For me the foundation is financial independence (thus not being dependable on living with any other human- woman or man) + good health (thus remaining attractive, fit and in good condition up to late 50-60s at least!) + following my passions (thus having plenty of opportunities to experience even more freedom and meeting new people when necessary).

As I’ve said, I don’t want kids therefore I will never have ‘family’ as such. What I am left with is to have my own way – do what I love to do, that also includes meeting and having sex with woman- on shorter or longer basis but I doubt anything called ‘love’ or ‘falling in love’ can occur in me at this point. Especially when I already know what ‘love’ is and that it is just a temporary chemical bonding based on neuro-chemistry and reactions inside our brains- which can be controlled.

Women never fall in love with men they don’t want to fall in love with on the first place.

Yet, our social media scene is full of stories called ‘love from the first sight’… Coincidence?
Global conspiracy? Maybe we just deep down know it’s all bullshit, but we like to keep telling lies to ourselves, to just stay in that half-dream state in the same way as we are still telling our children that a fucking Santa Claus is real and there are more cartoon-ish characters around Tokio streets than real human celebrities.