Trust is a Lie

What it means to trust somebody?


Well, to trust someone is to pretend they would not cheat on us. To trust other human being means we assume that he or she would not cheat. We basically lie to ourselves, because we know how human nature works.

We all know that everybody else lies, and that we do it too.

Knowing this fact you are not able to be with anybody, because of course why be with a cheater and call it something decent? But we all want it so badly. We want the illusion of closeness, intimacy, ‘special bond’, ‘second half’ and so on, and so forth. So instead, we lie to ourselves. We try to cheat our brain and inner wisdom by pretending that this other person is somehow special and would never, ever cheat on us. Ever.

Of course, every single one from our past did. But this new, fresh, current one? Nah. Never. This one is special. Unlike the others. A true unicorn. 😉

The fact is that we don’t know, whether it will lie to us or not. But we ‘trust’ that this person would not do this. ‘Would she lie to me?’ nooo of course no, I TRUST HER’.

We could as well say ‘Would she lie to me? Probably yes, because you can’t cheat female nature. And I am just trying to calm my brain down, so I can remain at peace knowing that I am out of control’.

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To trust is to make an illogical assumption that the other person would not lie to us, even (especially!) knowing that we trust her!

How easy is to lie to someone when you know that this person trust you? Well, when you cut off some sort of ‘moral’ dilemma it’s actually much easier than do it to person who don’t trust you. Why? Because the guy who don’t trust you will have his defense up, and he will remain vigilant.

Women know how this paradox works. And they use it against men. They try it on us without remorse. Doesn’t matter if you’re Blue Piller ball-less poor-sheep dude or Red Pill Alpha. Because you can’t cheat female nature.

What’s the solution?

It’s very simple.

Don’t trust her.

Use her, play with her, but don’t trust her.

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5 thoughts on “Trust is a Lie

  1. Women are the only ones who use this. What about male nature? They aren’t innocent. Men have been doing it this beginning of time. To make children. With no remorse. So please stop trying to pin this on women. Yes I get it, sex is fun and junk, but when you actually have a child men usually put that responsibility on the woman not yourself because you don’t have to go through it. Woman has more emotional attachment to sex if you haven’t noticed. But that’s not the point here.

    Last time I checked it’s men that usually go out to clubs to use women not the other way around? Do you know why women work there? It’s because of absent fathers.

    Do you know the reason why women use it on men?

    Why would you use someone would you want someone to use you that’s a really unjust way of ending things. In the end your just like “her” because you use her just like you claim she uses you.

    Thank you for reading😊

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    1. A woman can easily turn off any emotional attachment during or after sex. If you don’t believe it, visit an escort. Or just sleep with any woman in LTRs after years. She will be as emotionally attached to the sex act as a bored sheep. She will use it only as a method of controlling you.

      Men go out to clubs to use women? Funny. If anyone uses anyone – it is both genders at the same time. You write like a woman, though. By saying ‘use her’ I meant ‘use woman’ for what she’s good at- sex, laugh, and a bit of company. Thats about it.

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