Madonna–whore complex

Madonna (from medieval Italian ma donna, meaning “my lady”) most commonly refers to:

  • Madonna, an appellation of Mary (mother of Jesus), a religious figure in Christianity and Islam

    Whore

    noun
    derogatory
    1. 1.
      a prostitute.
      verb
      promiscuous woman, slut, sex worker, white slave
    1. 2.
      (of a woman) work as a prostitute.
      “she spent her life whoring for dangerous men”, sell one’s body, sell oneself
      1. 3.In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship.[1] First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence,[2] this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).[3] Freud wrote: “Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love.”[4] Clinical psychologist Uwe Hartmann, writing in 2009, stated that the complex “is still highly prevalent in today’s patients”.[3]

In sexual politics the view of women as either Madonnas or whores limits women’s sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to construct a sexual identity.[5]

Case number three: Religious girl.

Several years ago I had a short summer romance with Elizabeth. She was a type of a girl pretending to always hang out with men. Official reason- she could not find common language with girls. You know that type. Usually they try to mimic boys by dressing like one of them. Short hair, cap, completely asexual behavior, vocabulary and dressing style. Afraid of deeper connections with people. Often toxic childhood. Only this one wasn’t like that- she was rather feminine. And her family was more or less normal. But today “normal” means “fucked beyond recognition”. Albeit with fat ass, she upped her SMV chances by having cute face, nice long and dark hair, smooth voice and great deep throat skills. I’d still give her 6/10 however it wasn’t possible to fuck her from behind nor when she was on top due to physical limitations. Oh well, you can’t have everything.

It turned out that behind her fake mask of “being a boy’s girl” she was secretly conspiring with females (surprise!), backstabbing and talking shit behind back of every men she was with. When she was with me, she talked very bad stuff about her previous partner. When she was with next one, she said similar things about me- and so on.

What was even more funny is that she never got into a relationship that lasted longer than several months. She was 29 at that time. She was very religious. Please note that this often act as a poison. Christian sect (just like any other out there) keeps people in fear (from devil, hell, damnation etc.) and thus limiting their natural urge to search for knowledge. I was never a mindless sheeple willing to accept something that someone says to me as “truth” unless I verified it on my own. But that is a little bit off topic.

She described me her private relationship with Jesus. Actually, she said that they were having a lot of conversations together and that he is a ‘really cool guy’. I wonder how intimate her fantasies were, but I can easily imagine herself having some sort of crazy masturbation urges depicting Jesus Christ. She was in church every Sunday, and sometimes often. Well, if someone says he is talking daily with Adolf Hitler he will probably end in mental hospital. If you say that you speak with Jesus, that’s okay. I guess Adolf got a little worse game than son of god. What a crazy world we live in.

She said that she never masturbated or slept with anyone during her ‘madonna‘ period. But, every 1,5-2 years she was breaking her vows and for 0,5-1 year hell went loose. She was sleeping with many guys, doing a lot of alcohol, and basically being a ‘whore‘. She said she could not break through this sick pattern. Or rather- she didn’t want to?

This pattern repeated as long as I knew her.

madonna-whore

I can assure you that she wasn’t sleeping with guys for a long time when I meet her before that summer flirt. You can tell this by using your nose. Female who does not had sex for long period of time will smell different. Her body knows something is against natural urges and starts producing more pheromones. This should help attract males.

By the way, it seems that the same thing works for males too. Nature always finds a way.

You can ask- why on earth you would want to sleep with such girl? Well. I wanted to fuck her. That’s it. It was during my Red Pill years when I already knew that another relationship would be a mistake.

Why I was starting relationships in the past?

To be honest with you, when I was really young (like 20 years old) – it was mainly to get sex. Relationships were a side effect as I did not wanted to hurt their feelings. Back then I believed in love. And I wasn’t thinking about it too much, as “having a girlfriend” was viewed as something normal. Everything seemed perfect. Of course this feeling started to dissolve with every new woman I meet. I can only imagine how hard it must be for someone to be only with 1 or 2-3 women in their life, without gaining much experience and being forced into marriage and kids. What a shame.

Let’s say that out loud- we wanted to be appreciated by women. Before MGTOW we thought that our success is not valid without women saying it means something important. This is a huge mistake. A logical fallacy. Like we couldn’t live without patronising acceptance speech of our own mothers.

In philosophy, a formal fallacy is a pattern of reasoning which is rendered invalid due to a flaw in its logical structure which can neatly be expressed in standard system of logic, for example propositional logic. An argument that is formally fallacious is always considered to be wrong. A formal fallacy is contrasted with an informal fallacy, which may have a valid logical form and yet be unsound because one or more premises are false.

It’s a misconception. Now think, how many of us went into a relationship just to finally get laid? Or to have access to sex. Not because we were “so lonely”? That’s what women don’t understand. They can have sex almost anytime they want. They don’t know how it is to not have abundance of sexual partners that are always ready to please you. That is why they can’t understand why men are willing to pay for sex up front, when going to a prostitute.

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The interconnected world we have now allows free flow of information and human race really speed up with evolution due to it. I often think that internet saved us, somehow. Or at least – we saved a lot of time.

We all die someday, so make sure that you live your life to the fullest. Whether it’s TRP or MGTOW, or maybe a mix – it doesn’t matter, really. Let it serve you and not some unappreciative woman who is limited by her biological nature.

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