They Don’t Listen!
Most of the modern men are behaving like social entertainment systems for women. Mobile. And replaceable.
Don’t be one of them. Beta Males think that the very act of talking to women (in workplace, on the street etc.) is required from them. Otherwise, they would not exist in the social space. Besides, how come they could not talk to their divine companions (?!). Without their acceptance, they don’t exist socially.
Alpha Males think in a similar way, but they are convinced that by doing that they exude power.
Men going their own way do as they please – if they want to talk, they talk. If they don’t – it doesn’t matter either. We know that power comes from inner confidence and not some sort of norms imposed on us by our twisted and sick society. Maybe being an MGTOW has some connection to the Sigma Male pattern? Specifically as being the one who (maybe not necessarily) is a typical social outcast, no longer playing the “social game” anymore?)
How many times you were talking about something to a women and she responded “sorry can you repeat, I wasn’t listening”? Well. It doesn’t matter she is the girl you just started to date, your wife or LTR GF. Or even colleague from work. They just don’t listen. They don’t need to. They aren’t interested in our stories. That is our first and primal mistake. We tend to believe we need their appreciation, that they are genuinely interested in who we are or how our day was. They are not. They aren’t our mothers. It’s like Chad Thundercock talking to a girl. He does not care about her relationship story, he only sees her pants and what’s underneath. Women look at us from the same point of view- a source of resources (pun intended!).
It is important for them if we provide good sex, money, security, emotional safety and so on. Whether you’re a corporate office slave or popular artist does not matter.
Do you see the difference yet? They don’t listen to us and yet, we listen closely to everything they say. Because we care about them. More than we care for ourselves. It’s time to stop this bullshit.
I’d like to dedicate second part of this article to something special. I was recently reading some research papers about hormones. I’d come over interesting term. Testosterone poisoning. I followed up and found this:
“Testosterone poisoning is a pejorative neologism that refers not to actual poisoning, but to a negative perception of stereotypical aspects of male behavior. This speculative and controversial expression is based on a belief that men and boys with more masculine traits have more negative traits than they would otherwise. The term capitalizes on the perception that masculinity is controlled by the androgen testosterone.
An early printed reference to “testosterone poisoning” came in 1975 from actor Alan Alda. He said:
“Everyone knows that testosterone, the so-called male hormone, is found in both men and women. What is not so well known, is that men have an overdose… Until recently it has been thought that the level of testosterone in men is normal simply because they have it. But if you consider how abnormal their behavior is, then you are led to the hypothesis that almost all men are suffering from testosterone poisoning.”
Isn’t that interesting? Let’s now look how the general view of a female is presented in our social media, shall we?
“Femininity (also called feminity, girlishness, womanliness or womanhood) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with girls and women. Femininity is often perceived as a social construct, which is made up of both socially defined and biologically created factors. This makes it distinct from the definition of the biological female sex, as both males and females can exhibit feminine traits. People who exhibit a combination of both masculine and feminine characteristics are considered androgynous, and feminist philosophers have argued that gender ambiguity may blur gender classification.
Traits traditionally cited as feminine include gentleness, empathy, and sensitivity, though traits associated with femininity vary depending on location and context, and are influenced by a variety of social and cultural factors. In some non-English speaking cultures, certain concepts or inanimate objects are considered feminine or masculine (the counterpart to feminine).”
Well, isn’t that funny that somehow feminine traits are being glorified whilst masculine traits presented as something that’s poisoning human race and we would rather be better without it? Besides, show me a female which shows traits of empathy. Seriously. My garden snails show bigger trails (sic!) of empathy. Women won’t save us. They can only weaken and kill us. We must save ourselves. This is the only way.
Women won’t save us. They can only weaken and kill us. We must save ourselves. This is the only way.
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Never look back. MGTOW is the only way. Grow and prosper.