We are alone.
We always were. With a brief period of magical time during our childhoods. I’ve read somewhere that it turns out that over 25% of men were abused or having toxic parents – alcoholism, drug using, poor family, jobless, and so on. Think about it. Every 1 out of 4 men never had a decent family! How the fuck we are ought to be happy, confident and healthy in our later lives? Sometimes it’s just too much work. The same goes with women – it’s even worse with them, because they are using that pussy leverage.
Relationships are just too much work. You need to be holding frame 24 hours per day.
Everyone is saying – “OK, don’t whine to women there is no point and you can do this to your male friends instead”. Men are fine but did you ever heard that anyone cried on other men shoulder?
Yeah you can do it and then everyone will be laughing your ass off you as the one being “weak” (even if inside they feel the same).
We are all just pretending pretending pretending. That our lives are interesting. That we are having the time of our life. Most of us live mediocre, day-to-day lives without spectacular events in them. Women can go and cry after a breakthrough and it’s okay. They have their emotional tampon friends, both females and males. Men go and die on battlefields, but we need to be “tough”. Females got it easier and can go all cry-baby if they only want. For us it’s not OK to be emotional. For us it’s “be a man” but also: “gender equality (whenever it suits women)”.
Being an MGTOW doesn’t mean you aren’t an asshole.
I’ve already seen a bunch of ignorant, egoistic arse-holes being or pretending to be MGTOWs. Well let me tell you this: MGTOW is not some sort of magical formula that makes a man great. If someone has a shitty personality he can still be a mangina or a MGTOW and it won’t affect it.
We are whining just like they are – about us. Women are constantly telling themselves everything about men, their relationships, intimate things. Turns out that a big part of MGTOW community does the same. I am part of it, too! I confess. You see, it’s still better to do this, than when few blue pillers meet for a beer (because their wives allowed it! haha!) and one or two of them tells a flat joke about how “women are…” they all laugh in a refrained silent way. Then someone just change the topic because they don’t want to “go into it” too much. After the meeting every single one of them tells a complete report to his wife. Like a testimony. A confession. “Oh honey, you won’t believe – Jack said a joke about his wife today, he was laughing that she never cleans the house!”. She: “oh really? And what kind of joke you told about ME?”; Mangina:“honey, I wouldn’t ever done that to you!”
At least, most of us. Pretending that women don’t have any power over us, but if a perfect HB 9 came over to you, a good part of us would still drop everything and go have sex with her. Addiction to women is real. How you can be able to stop caring about their opinions if you cannot defeat your addiction to drugs or alcohol? Or smoking? Which is basically inhaling toxic fumes into your lungs? Get real for a moment. MGTOW also means growing as a human being. And I am not saying that everyone should live in the same way. Or be healthy. If you want to be ill, be ill. Just stop complaining about one area of your life when other ones are being constantly fucked up by you, too.
Development should contain every area of one’s life. From health, through mental side to relationships with other people. Otherwise, you’ll be like a cup being endlessly filled with water due to small holes at the bottom of it.