Welcome everyone. We’ve almost hit our 200 likes on our FB profile. If you consider controversial topics here that are often bordering on hate speech and misogyny, this is a nice achievement. In reality, we only exploit freedom of speech. Gladly, we can still have it around here. Also, we’ve hit over 63k visitors last year. Plus 58k from 2015, that makes exactly 96,391 people reading R.M.H. in the last two years. And when I add almost 10k that have already been here in 2017, we can proudly announce that 105,610 people were here since the launch. That’s beyond awesome. Thank you all. And btw, this is the 154 article published on Red Male Hummingbird. Some of them were better than others, but it’s nonetheless a huge amount.
Female validation does nothing for me. You get a pat on the back if you do well. Literally. They come over, talk with you (expect to be entertained, so you joke back and forth and present masculine energy so that they can get their ‘ginas wet&tingle) and then they pat you on the back when going away. Or on a shoulder. This way they ‘claim‘ that they “approve” you and that other females should be jealous because you present some sort of value to the ones that “patted” you on the back. It’s really not about you. It’s about females showing other females how much fun they are getting out of you and how their value goes up because they are being around a real man. It’s phony and shallow. I mean I can get how it can be something valuable for some specific types of extroverted men looking for female validation, but somehow it does nothing for me. Fucking nothing. It’s just a burden. Am I ill, or what? Hahah.
I mean yeah, it feels nice but for me it’s just “I don’t care, leave me alone”. It only makes the whole environment expecting me to play this game harder and receive even more “pat-backs”. There’s no end to this! And one needs to spend 8 hours every day, 5 days per week at work. Social validation is so empty. Sigh.
For me personally it’s a huge disappointment. It was a good community. To kill it just like that without warning is a small insult. And a very sad story. Well, we will prevail anyway. Not the best move if you ask me. However, I do understand Alexander and his own reasons. But I always thought that MGTOW and male brotherhood is above politics.
Random MGTOW Blurbs
“A man strives to get direct mastery over things either by understanding them or by compulsion. But a woman is always and everywhere driven to indirect mastery, namely through a man; all her direct mastery being limited to him alone. Therefore it lies in woman’s nature to look upon everything only as a means for winning man, and her interest in anything else is always a simulated one, a mere roundabout way to gain her ends, consisting of coquetry and pretense.” — Arthur Schopenhauer, On Women
“The truths uncovered in this essay and many others is why I USE women for entertainment purposes only! They perform (sex, feminine company) or they are history.”
“I don’t love idealistically anymore but opportunistically like they do, the shattered remains of pedestals past serve only to remind me of the limited value that they bring to the relationship table.
“I have embraced male hypergamy and I’m always looking for an upgrade, I’ve even started shit testing THEM just for my amusement, I enjoy taking their hamsters for a ride.
They only play the “sexual retirement” card with betas, if she sees you as Alpha and her best option she will do whatever it takes to keep you around.
I don’t feel bad for using women this way because as much as we objectify them for their sexual allure, they objectify us for our utility value.
Even if she sees you as a “hawt” it’s still all about HER you are a reflection of her value, on display to her peers to affirm her position in the group.
You are still a utility even if If you achieve Alpha fucks status, they lack empathy and the ability to truly love anyone except maybe “their” children.
It’s not an accident that society conflates men’s servitude with qualities of adulthood – it’s the design.
As such, women begin to get nervous that their future provisioning and security are their own responsibility.”
From “Black Dragon Blog”
Playdontpay comment from Rational Male blog:
“When men’s ambitions are centered on satisfying themselves and not about developing equity that’s useful to women, that’s when those men (and those who would encourage it) are shamed for not being an adult. They are shamed for not manning up or growing up to meet the needs of women and thus not living up to “adult responsibilities”.”
“Men have evolved to assess sexual availability of women and evaluate their fitness in the span of moments. This was a necessary evolutionary adaptation in the past in that it served men well to breed efficiently and evacuate quickly should a rival or monogamously paired man be in the vicinity to mate guard with violence. And this adaptation is also the result of women’s sexual strategy and predilection for making cuckolds of men.”
“This submission is a refutation of the title stated above and understanding the statement.
A post was recently made about how women are only fit to breed and provide sex ,and the title of this post was stated in the comment section. I find this very disturbing and disappointing that someone commenting on this sub would just make such a statement without any evidence or support.
The reasons why we don’t “treat everyone like human beings” are the reasons we found MGTOW. Treating everyone like human beings means treating everyone with respect regardless of age or gender. Furthermore, treating everyone with respect means having expectations that humans are inherently “good” or maybe “ok”; ie assuming they meet standards of decency and honor.
This gentleman also claims that he has female friends and they are “good” people(paraphrasing). Yes, women can be “good” to you as long as they are getting something in return;this also apply to some men. These kind of people only associate with people who can give them something of value at the very moment, once the value is gone, so are they(Women outweigh men in this). However, this is where men shine. Men will associate themselves with whomever they choose, regardless of what the individual brings to the table.”
“I am not dictating how one should live their life,This is just something I am placing on the table.From my little experiences and observations, the last thing you want to do as a MGTOW, as a man, is “treat everyone the same”, lest you’d be disappointing.”
Again “Black Dragon Blog“:
“Goals work. Affirmations work. Attitude works. Self talk works. Even when these things are negative. If you start believing and talking about how you’re going to be successful in life, then guess what? You’ll very likely be successful. If you start believing and talking that you’re going to die soon, then guess what?
Yeah. This stuff works both ways.
This is why you need to be very, very careful about what you believe, what you say, what you assume, and what you act on. When you say something negative about yourself, when you think something negative about yourself, it has real-world, external consequences to your life. Bad ones.
The problem is that you can’t see these consequences immediately. They take time to manifest. If you stab your own leg with a fork, you will see and feel immediate and terrible consequences. Therefore, I have a feeling you probably won’t do that.
But if you walk around thinking or saying “Women don’t like me” or “I’m ugly” or “I’m too short” or “I’m not good at making money” or “I’m a wimp” or “I’m a beta” or “I have oneitis” or “Women only like muscular guys” or “I can’t do that”, the negative consequences are just as real as stabbing yourself with a fork, except you can’t see them immediately. They take months or years to manifest, but trust me, they’ll manifest just the same.
Because nothing bad happens to you immediately, I have a feeling you’re believing or saying something negative about yourself right now. And if you are, you’re just as insane as the guy who stabs himself in the leg with a fork.”