Don’t Be an Embarrassment to Masculinity

Our current world

“In a society in which nearly everybody is dominated by somebody else’s mind or by a disembodied mind, it becomes increasingly difficult to learn the truth about the activities of governments and corporations, about the quality or value of products, or about the health of one’s own place and economy. In such a society, also, our private economies will depend less upon the private ownership of real, usable property, and more upon property that is institutional and abstract, beyond individual control, such as money, insurance policies, certificates of deposit, stocks, etc. And as our private economies become more abstract, the mutual, free helps and pleasures of family and community life will be supplanted by a kind of displaced citizenship and by commerce with impersonal and self-interested suppliers… The great enemy of freedom is the alignment of political power with wealth. This alignment destroys the commonwealth – that is, the natural wealth of localities and the local economies of household, neighborhood, and community – and so destroys democracy, of which the commonwealth is the foundation and practical means.” –
Wendell Berry

Don’t Be an Embarrassment to Masculinity

“To have sex you have to exchange. You are affected by someone else and someone else is affected by you. It amazes me how much we run from this. We try and control sex and dominate and so on, but at its core we are meant to be influenced by one another. Feel someone else and let them feel you.

First you need to realize Monogamy, Polyamory, being a ‘Player’ are all man-made concepts. Your body, your emotions and your sex drive doesn’t care about any of those. It is going to feel what it is going to feel. If you have disciplined yourself in these concepts and you have no experience behind them you’re going to find yourself quickly abandoning them to the overwhelming feeling of love, sex and desire. There is nothing weak about this.

If you make a mistake and fall in love too fast, make too many commitments or get someone pregnant and you’re not ready for it, it is ok to back out of everything. As much as your closest friends may judge you, family members turn their backs and the person you loved now hates and vilifies you, it is not an excuse to do something you’re not ready to do.”Steve Mayeda

Listen to hear, not to respond.

What sex means to you? Do you do it because you want to dominate over women? Do you want it because you strive for intimate connection on a deeper level? Do you just want to get rid of your semen? Maybe it’s a mixture of every reason that I have mentioned? As one old sage once said, you should always surround yourself with women younger than yourself as the older ones will take away your vital energy and the young ones will replenish it. 

The Four Male Archetypes

Blurbs on Humanity

The human race will go where the majority of the population goes. What most people do not realize is that everything that makes up our world just happened. TV, cars, refrigerators, air conditioning, indoor plumbing, toilets, washing machines, microwaves, computers, etc. have all just appeared in the last few generations, most things in just the last generation. Americans could legally own people as slaves just one-hundred and fifty years ago. Women could not own property, sign a legal contract, or vote until the 1920s, and women did not have equal rights under the law until the 1960s.

Tonight when you are lying in bed in the dark, imagine you are laying on the ground in pitch darkness, with no walls and doors, and thousands of insects and other strange creatures are out in the dark making loud noises. Imagine there are predators many times your size, with large fangs and claws, that can see in the dark and smell where you are sleeping. You were there. Beasts like the saber tooth tiger lived in the same places we lived up until about ten thousand years ago, and they were just one of many creatures that would kill and eat us alive. Remember, this is the way it was for 90% of our history.

Fire: We could not make a fire up until about forty thousand years ago. That means for about one-hundred and sixty thousand years, we had to go to sleep without a fire burning. For most of the time we lived on earth, we feared the night.

Roller-coaster: The pain of the past was balanced, but that does not make it good. When you won a battle or fight to the death or were successful killing an animal during a hunt, it was extremely pleasurable, because it meant survival. This is why men still feel good when we kill something. You were much more aware of the present, so life was much more fulfilling than it is now.

(“Truth Contest“)

Smiles

You smile = she senses your positive energy and likes you, too. Nope! You smile = she knows you’re vulnerable and amused by her.

In reality it’s so fucked up that you can’t even smile to the girl you like because then she’ll see you as less valuable because she’ll know you are being influenced by her. And she will go to the guy who is less affected by her. So you have to contain your smile and let her come to you intrigued by the fact that you are not moved even by an inch by her sexuality/body/looks etc. If she comes, that’s fine. If she does not – that’s also fine. That’s exactly the definition of wanting someone but not being needy. And I’m ok with that. But I’m not ok with not being able to smile. That’s just stupid.


The Male Archetypes in their Fullness

Warrior

Do something that scares you
Be more decisive
Quit seeking exits
Find your core values
Have a plan and purpose
Strengthen your resilience
Find out who you are loyal to
Establish and live via non-negotiable terms
Compete
Strengthen your discipline via habits and routine
Adopt a minimilist attitude
Take up a physical discipline e.g. martial arts

 

Magician

Commit to life long learning
Meditate
create more, consume less
work with your hands
take part in rites of passage
find a mentor
become a mentor
create a sangha
create a sacred space

King

Leave a legacy
Develop practical wisdom
Become a mentor
Find a mentor
Develop the virtue of order
Break away from you mother
Develop traits of true leadership
Establish your core values
Establish your core values
Develop a life plan
protect the sanctity of your ideas
become decisive
Avoid corruption
Live with integrity

Lover

Cultivate the virture of moderation
become fully present
find the centre of your bliss
Be spontaneous
work out what your lover needs

Which one depicts you? Of course, all four of them! Let that sink for a while.

What are the female archetypes? Well, nobody can decide. They say that it should be something like this:

Maiden/Virgin

Mother

Enchantress/Wild Woman/Lover

Queen/Wise Woman

PUA Scam

PUA Scam

Nowadays we have three major paths for men – PUA, The Red Pill and MGTOW.

RSD Tyler/Julien/Todd and the rest of their crew are a nicely cut fake scam artists. (just google “RSD faking infields” and do some research if their method works and check articles like this one ) If you ever tried their methods, you would knew what I’m saying. The only possibility of a quick make out exist if the girl is already after at least few drinks. And usually after few too many! Same with pulls. I don’t know about you, but I don’t find a lot of fun in sleeping with stinking smelly drunkards especially as I don’t drink at all anymore. So, the only way is the casual way. It takes hours out of your evening. It might be faster if you’re still in your 20s and partying in really big cities with like minded people.

If you keep stalking girls that are out just to be a little crazy and to have fun, you’d be blown out many, many times. From time to time you will get results but it’s just a numbers game. It’s not due to your “game” or some magic PUA skills. You will waste time, effort, money and your health – you can as well go to the good quality escort. You’ll get a similar dopamine rush before during and after. At least you can have better pre selection. 😉 Besides, go on and try to go out 3-4 times per week when having a normal day job and being in your middle 30s. It’s tiring. It’s pointless. It’s not that much of a fun, especially if you’re not a heavily extroverted person. And even if you are? I remember watching one video when RSD Tyler/Owen jokingly says that their business model was basically to outline the basics and then complicate them, and keep doing it so at the end the onion has so many layers that nobody knows what’s going on anymore. It works for clueless men who come to their seminars. 2k per one + millions of views on YT + thousands of dollars for their learning programs made them very rich indeed. Remember that sex won’t make you happy if your life is empty. If your life is empty, no woman would want to join your party, either. Owen likes to say that you should “ignore the negative energy” coming from a girl or better, ignore the negativity altogether. And stop listening to the voice in your head. Of course I agree that we shouldn’t overthink stuff too much, but saying that one should ignore your own intuitive voice is just stupid. After many years I’ve finally learnt how to get in touch with my own intuition and I won’t be dropping it anytime soon. Owen has a lot of good ideas that can be applied to a daily life, though. I don’t try to undermine that. Also he certainly posses a very magnetic persona – probably due to some personality issues. He confirmed this himself many times, by the way. Don’t forget that most people out there are just trying to sell you something and make themselves rich. The main point is that you don’t need their magic pills.

After three years…

Radical MGTOW version/way is, well, too radical… I am not impotent, I am not afraid of women, I don’t hate them, they like me and I like them. I have high sexual drive. I love sex and I love women who love sex. I won’t be pretending that’s not the case. We live in a very connected world and shutting myself away from any contact with the opposite gender doesn’t work for me. I don’t need to do this nor I want to do this, either.

So, what’s left? Well, the classical The Red Pill theory. After deep research of both PUA and MGTOW ways, I am going more towards TRP tradition now. And I must admit that Corey Wayne is still portraying the most balanced version of who I am becoming/want to become. His teachings lie somewhere between classical PUA, TRP and MGTOW. With a strong nudge towards TRP side that encourages short/medium term relationships but without radical absurdities of PUAs and monk-mode-MGTOWs.

Women are just women. We won’t change them. And they won’t change us. They are still better placed than us, because they can choose between beta “mangina” providers and alpha “IDGAF” fucks (or just between men believing in LTRs/Love/Kids/Marriage and ones that no longer believe in that bullshit) and that’s about it. We don’t have much choice. 😉 I don’t mind. I buy it. Life is short. Soon, all of us will be dead.

Life is  full of suffering. Yet, life is so beautiful. 

Forge through it. Find your own way.

Enjoy it while you can.

Love =/= Control?

Ultimately, we are all alone. And that’s fine.

And love is a scam. I am not talking about the universal cosmic love. That is something of far wider perspective. But our earthly, human love? It’s a scam. Biological imperative crafted by nature to maintain the continuity of human species.

We are being told that in order to love truly you need to love freely. To give freedom to the person that we love. But yet, at some another level, love also means control. And control means to worry. And you worry to lose someone you love because you care about them. And you can lose a person in many different ways. The feeling that a father has when his daughter slips into drug addiction? That hopeless realization that nothing can be done in order to save her? Yet, he tries to do it nevertheless. And only when he realizes there’s truly nothing he can do to help her, he quits. And gives up. It’s a tremendous sadness mixed with sorrow and grief. This is how I feel now. One of the people that were close to me, deliberately and stubbornly chooses the wrong path for herself. And just like in those books we’ve been told to never read, a small part of myself dies within. This is because a part of myself, of my heart, was living inside of her. And nothing can be done. After so many years of hard work and hope that one can recognize and change the bad habits. You can only save yourself. Other people don’t give a fuck about you or your hope to help them. They don’t want to be saved.

“I am happy only when I am unhappy”

Apparently a parent can never give up and leave his own child. Maybe some of them can. Maybe they do it only on the surface but deep down nothing is being resolved, and there’s no peace at heart. Ever. Maybe sometimes life throws us towards similar experiences, so that we can gain knowledge and recognize patterns.

But after every rainfall, there’s another breakthrough of clear weather. So, on one side I am asking myself “what the hell I am still doing here?” but on the other I know that soon everything will change for the better. For myself. Only for myself.

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Who the fuck would even touch this whale? And yet, women are lucky. Being with a fat woman is a fetish of so many men…

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Most of the girls were fat at least few times in their lives. You think from where they got stretch marks on their bellies, asses and legs? It is not some mystery disease that happens only to women.

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It happens because they didn’t care about themselves. It happens because they can get away with it. It happens because they are encouraged to not care about themselves.  It happens because they are still desired no matter how bad they look. Because they are lazy and careless.

 

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It happens because ugly whales like this can still get a string of males willing to serve them. Who the fuck would ever want to date such unattractive person? She’s HB4 at best.

During middle ages, she would be washing toilets. Nowadays, she’s some sort of social media star.

World has gone mad.

Friends

Did we went too far? Way over the top? Before discovering MGTOW/TRP I was able to have normal conversations with people, now the reality makes me unable to befriend people who have different views. It’s like politics- democrats hate liberals and so on. People are so divided. But maybe they were always like that and being an adult means having alienating opinions and just pretending you’re like everyone else? But then, what’s the fucking point if one supposedly posses “freedom of speech” but can’t be using it as it’s not “politically correct”?!

I was talking with a guy that I know. He said he probably don’t want to get married. He is a Muslim, and I like him. He had some signs that he might “get it”. But it’s pointless. Every time I try to explain something to him, he goes into some sort of brain_freeze mode and he isn’t able to say anything except women are equal to men, and period. He doesn’t get any arguments on the table, though. It is just as it is. I call BS on that, though. Have a look:

Him: “You would make a really good dominant daddy-type BF to some young blonde innocent girl, who’d have to agree to everything you’d say For now, just be content in the fact that there are people who are different than you, who are wrong. who believe in so many other things that to you might be laughable, accept them for who they are and do not try and change them even if you do not agree with their beliefs.”

Now, if he had enough of experience he would knew that young blondes are never innocent and they never agree to everything one says. 😉 Some people cannot be saved. The thing is: if you were wrong, would you like to know? Some people just WANT to believe that the earth is flat and they will ditch out anything proving otherwise.

Him: “Hahahaha, you are sexist, women and men are equal you know, so if they can do it why cant men do it”

Me: “Yes, but men don’t have a pussy. maybe some of them do hehe”

Him: “Women do not have a dick, still they are equal to men. They work it out somehow and so can we”

Me: “Sexes aren’t equal. never were, never be. we are different. we have different drives, purposes. to say we are equal means killing the diversity.”

Him: “Don’t ask stupid questions and look for logic. I am not listening to you, WOMEN ARE EQUAL TO MEN and that is the end of it”

However, his argument is objectively valid. People have different views. But if you knew the truth you would want to save your friends, right? Or at least try to explain them something? I can say the same: our MGTOW truth comes from analysis of logical facts. So what part in his rational thinking works different so that he ends up with “men are equal to women”? And every time I try to tell him “they aren’t equal, they are different, 1=1 but x =/= z … not worse or better, but we are not equal” and he simply doesn’t get it. It’s like a brain block or something. I am not even saying they are worse than us! Just different! No! “They are equal”.

I believe he views it not even as “women and men are equal, men were oppressing women for so long, poor females etc” as he doesn’t go that deep into this topic, but rather “women should have equal rights, we should support them”. Like they weren’t able to support themselves – they already are better than us. Much better.

How we can do something with people like him? Is there anything we can do?

I am suffering with inability to speak up my own truth. They can speak their own truth. And I can’t.
I am tired. Tired of societal conditioning. Because nowadays it doesn’t matter what you know or who you are. What matters is how good you can tell silly/funny stories that make women’s laugh. It matters how “social” you are. How many jokes you can make in a minute- of course to make our beloved women happy. It is just stupid.

Press Terror (Vertigo)

Guys, you know that for us the future might be both bright (VR porn, sex with robots, VasaGel etc) and dark (because we won’t be able to create a family and have kids) but let’s think about kids that are growing up in today’s world. For them the world will become a massive fuck-up. Their young fertile brains are being manipulated from early childhood. They will really believe that they are the sub-gender, that they should kill their own sexuality, that they should serve women… and so on. Now, this stuff is everywhere. Just like information about “10 year olds changing their gender” and how we should encourage it. It is ridiculous! The logical next question to ask is: who the hell is orchestrating it? Because certainly people do not come up with stuff like that on their own. They are too busy working their slavery corporate jobs (if they are lucky!). Maybe the fact that we live under a specific political system? But I don’t think so. Democracy doesn’t do that. I don’t want to come up with some crazy Illuminati stuff either, but sometimes I really feel like I don’t know anything at all anymore.

My friend sent me a bunch of screenshots from the digital version of the famous UK newspaper “The Telegraph”. It is a well known and respected press on the British Island. It was a shock. I don’t read stuff like that, but just a short glimpse on the  “MEN” section confirmed my worries. You would expect empowering stuff over there. Stuff that would enrich a modern man’s life, right? Wrong!

Articles such as “Dr. No means no: Why James Bond is more of a feminist than you might think” by Jeremy Black are all over the place. What the fuckity fucking fuck is this shit? Who writes this? Jeremy, you little fucking cunt… I am sure your wife approves this bullshit but you should be very afraid to meet me someday. I would show you what my idea of James Bond is and I assure you that in my version J.B. kicks smashes faces of people like you. You lazy pussy beggar. Shame on you! You should be castrated but probably you already don’t have anything there.

“How to give your relationship a break without splitting up” – Is this a “MEN” section or not? What the hell is happening? This stuff is not only demeaning, but also worrying. I have an idea: let her fuck whoever she wants and then pretend she never did it! Of course we need to remain faithful during this “break”. Because we love her! D’oh!

“Eight baldness cures” – oh shit, that’s depressing. “Middle age crisis is coming!!! Run!!” We as males should be afraid. We are just microbes, ya know.

“I’m a gay man…” – I think I will need to learn how to swear in different languages, because this is beyond belief.
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“Everything you want to know about prostate cancer”
– oh dear and this just tops everything. Very motivating, healthy and fun. It’s great to be a man. Ooops, watch out! We are no longer allowed to call ourselves “men“. It might offend women! Aha! Women! Our divine second halves, our dear goddesses with a hole between their legs! The gate to happiness! How about we check the “Women” section in the very same newspaper?

“Everything you need to know about the Women’s March – and how to get involved” – Because it’s great to be a woman! Feel empowered! Feel proud! Feel strong! Where is the “men’s march” by the way, anyone ever heard about one?

“Quiz – Could you be the next Jane Bond?” – Are you fucking kidding me? James Bond is a feminist and go to hell with him anyway because… here women come!

“Donald Trump – Sexism tracker: every offensive comment in one place” – I am seriously without any rational comments left now, sorry.

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“So how should you confront a man watching porn in public?” – Oh my dear fuck. Yes, you read that correctly. More on that later on.

Or no! Let’s talk about it right now! Have a look at the excerpt:

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Can you believe this shit? Who the fuck watches porn in public? Is this really some sort of “widespread social phenomenon” (that’s of course very worrying and offending to women) because in my entire fucking life I have never ever saw or heard anyone doing that in any of the countries/cities I have lived so far (and I use public transport regularly). Maybe the people who are writing this BS are out of fresh ideas but you need to think about it that women/men are reading all this and believing every word. It is just like it was with the “mansplaining” craze. And in this very article there’s a hyperlink to another one about “wolf-whistlers”. I click on that and then I am taken away to a new article:

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Oh Great Lord Penis, have mercy! Are we still on Earth?! Or inside of a big spinning vagina without a brain?! “What women face on a daily basis“?! Well, how about we talk about what men face on a daily basis you stupid cunts! Oh, that won’t make sense because you don’t give a fuck about us! Because in your little book of rules “being a man means keeping silent and never speaking up about how hard your life is” because only then you feel some bit of respect and your vag is getting wet. That’s just disgusting. “Behavior targeted towards a woman by men simply because they are a woman”? But when stupid bitches call you names it is okay, though? You fucking dirty sluts with no moral values… how I am even still able to get an erection to fuck you is a mystery. If I got to think about how fucking careless you are I would not get one. What sort of protection I can get from “unwanted physical or verbal contact” with a woman? I get fucking none. That’s your fucking equality.

Number of fucks used in this article so far: 17 

Now, I understand that this isn’t some sort of fucking fairy tale. This is really happening. Press terror like this is happening everywhere. It’s not only on paper. It’s on every type of media- internet, TV, magazines. It’s on radio shows. We are doomed. Whoever is pulling the strings (for the whole human civilization) knows very well what he is doing. And they don’t have our happiness in view.

One dude from my current work was working on a side project for 3 months. He was doing work which included talking to important clients. He enjoyed it. He is very ambitious. Other people were coming over to him for advice and even though there were 2 other females scheduled to work on this with him they never did much because he was doing all of the work. They were slow, incompetent and unable to handle tough cases well, so he took over. Today it turned out that his female coworker has been selected to take care of the whole project and on top of that she received a special privilege to become the only person to do it. Nobody recognized his efforts or even mentioned him. She wasn’t doing it during these 3 months (because she did not liked it and my colleague took over) so it couldn’t be a decision based on performance. Even a short look on statistics would confirm who was really working on it during these last months. But the decision was made by a high manager who is a female. We have females as team leaders. As mentors. As coaches. They are everywhere. Women are everywhere in high positions of power and we are still talking about equality? We have none. When we will really wake up it will be far too late for us to recover. 

And it all starts when we are little kids. When travelling by train or coach, there’s always some older woman asking to help with her bags. And a young male is always happy to help. Then he hears that “there still are some gentleman around these days” and bathes in a pool of female validation. He feels good with himself. Grooming starts early. Did you ever heard any request for help from an older man? I haven’t.

This world is mad. It’s like being in a state of a complete vertigo.

Besides, at this very moment our planet Earth is flying through cosmos with the speed of 107,000 km/h spinning around its own axis and around the sun – which in fact is spinning, too – making the whole solar system rotating around it. Our solar systems flies through the huge galactic equator and the whole Milky Way galaxy rotates around the local super-cluster which is spinning around even bigger group of galaxies. Everything is fucking spinning! How the fuck anything can be normal?!