Facebook and the Social Media stigma


We. Are. Fucked.

As this is a website with rather unconventional uneasy and politically incorrect controversial topics, I cannot sign it up with my own name. In out modern “free censored speech” world, we aren’t allowed to fully express our thoughts. Well, we might do it but then we will be punished by the mindless society and law enforcement mafia. If I was to publish all this under my real name I would probably be hated by 99% of my dear work colleagues and disciplinary sacked from my job immediately. We have a free speech as long as we are talking what the majority wants to hear.

In our modern world saying that you’re not accepting homosexuals adopting kids means you’re homophobic. By telling that you don’t want a different culture spreading out in your own country, you’re being called a racist. Being a nationalist means being a fascist. These are well-known and deeply implanted words in our social consciousness that will be directed against you. Nobody wants to be called a racist, right? In the meantime young girls and boys are encouraged to question their own gender when they are still small kids. It’s a mad world and we should oppose this political correctness craze before it’s too late.

Orwell was right. The oppression is not happening in the somewhat distant future. It’s right here, in front of us.  Thinking about it makes me feel uneasy and uncomfortable. Almost a billion of people on our planet uses Facebook. We only use a handful of websites, in fact probably most of them are owned by huge corporate moguls: Facebook, Google, YouTube plus some of your favorite news services.

Currently, I am not allowed to make any significant changes on my FB page for RedMaleHummingbird. I would need to provide IDs and business documentation and that obviously cannot be done. This means that my FB page can be shut down almost anytime. If that ever happens, I will be still posting over Reddit and other sources. I welcome you to suggest me any good alternatives to Facebook.

I wonder when people will wake up?

I also know the answer: they won’t. If there ever was a wake up call, it was called Snowden. And Assange. And Manning. And we didn’t do shit. We are a race of sheep. We are already being controlled censored and tamed down.

And social media was probably the worst thing for both genders. Facebook apart from being an useful tool for communicating doesn’t change that much. Instead of meeting in real life people waste their time by clicking virtual buttons on their friends profiles arousing themselves by stalking on lives of people they barely know. In addition, those people produce a fake version of their own lives that create their “Facebook story”. Many of them really believe that their virtual personas make who they really are! I’ve heard we are afraid to indulge in Virtual Reality systems because they will disconnect us from the real world. Hello?! We are already living in a fucking virtual reality!

Why Facebook isn’t fun? Have a look:

 

I don’t even need to mention about being blocked, reported and overeager admins willing to cut you out for nothing. And there’s nothing you can do with it. As long as you won’t experience any problems yourself (or problems won’t find you, lol!) everything seems to be fine. But when you will, there’s nothing you can do about it. And nobody will be able to help you. It’s like a circle of sheep. Wolves are regularly killing the sheep from the borders of the circle, but the other sheep still being deep inside of it don’t care about it. After a while, there’s no sheep left in the circle. This is what ignorance does to us. Besides, do you really care about what movies your work colleague likes or where he has been two days ago?

And obviously the way FB excites our inner “I want to be famous and liked!” demon is incredible. Women went absolutely mad with such an easy possibility of receiving more attention and competing with other females at the same time. Our social media only made us less social, and more fake. Personally, I hate it. And are there any alternatives? So far I’ve only heard about the Minds.com platform which is not ruled by corporations and already gaining some publicity by being a good alternative to YouTube. 

 

Is Europe starting to have a Muslim problem?

Or maybe we have a huge problem with leftist political correctness which means we aren’t able to fully express our supposedly free speech without instantly being called racists and xenophobes? Isn’t it weird that I cannot freely talk about my opinion on this not only in the place where I currently work, but also around most of my colleagues without a possibility of “offending” them? This is our place, Europe. And it’s not about tolerance. I have nothing against people coming here to work hard just as I do. But if we cannot check who they are or they don’t integrate with the rest of our society and create ghettos, then is this what we really want or need? The line needs to be drawn. It’s really a thing that one needs to realize: our churches will be bulldozed due to low number of believers and we will have mosques built across our neighborhoods. We need to realize what this really means. Christianity had its period of killing infidels long time ago but this cannot be said about Islam. In theory we can brag about tolerance and openness but in practice every time a stronger culture beats up the one that’s more weak. Many more people come from the East to live here than the other way around. How many people do you know that go there to build homes and create families? I know none.

In reality, the “tolerant and open” world exists only here. They haven’t changed their ways of living. Their culture is completely alien to ours and nobody can’t deny that Christians and Muslims always had problems with coexisting peacefully in the past. I don’t know any good solutions for this problem. Things like “civil unrest” “civil war” and “Muslim Europe” are coming to mind. It is probably too late. The moment I am uploading this content, there were already two other terror attacks – in St Petersburg and in Stockholm.

It’s pretty much game over, guys.

http://www.citylab.com/housing/2015/10/mapping-the-frenzy-of-the-europes-migrant-crisis/412396/

The Four Male Archetypes

Blurbs on Humanity

The human race will go where the majority of the population goes. What most people do not realize is that everything that makes up our world just happened. TV, cars, refrigerators, air conditioning, indoor plumbing, toilets, washing machines, microwaves, computers, etc. have all just appeared in the last few generations, most things in just the last generation. Americans could legally own people as slaves just one-hundred and fifty years ago. Women could not own property, sign a legal contract, or vote until the 1920s, and women did not have equal rights under the law until the 1960s.

Tonight when you are lying in bed in the dark, imagine you are laying on the ground in pitch darkness, with no walls and doors, and thousands of insects and other strange creatures are out in the dark making loud noises. Imagine there are predators many times your size, with large fangs and claws, that can see in the dark and smell where you are sleeping. You were there. Beasts like the saber tooth tiger lived in the same places we lived up until about ten thousand years ago, and they were just one of many creatures that would kill and eat us alive. Remember, this is the way it was for 90% of our history.

Fire: We could not make a fire up until about forty thousand years ago. That means for about one-hundred and sixty thousand years, we had to go to sleep without a fire burning. For most of the time we lived on earth, we feared the night.

Roller-coaster: The pain of the past was balanced, but that does not make it good. When you won a battle or fight to the death or were successful killing an animal during a hunt, it was extremely pleasurable, because it meant survival. This is why men still feel good when we kill something. You were much more aware of the present, so life was much more fulfilling than it is now.

(“Truth Contest“)

Smiles

You smile = she senses your positive energy and likes you, too. Nope! You smile = she knows you’re vulnerable and amused by her.

In reality it’s so fucked up that you can’t even smile to the girl you like because then she’ll see you as less valuable because she’ll know you are being influenced by her. And she will go to the guy who is less affected by her. So you have to contain your smile and let her come to you intrigued by the fact that you are not moved even by an inch by her sexuality/body/looks etc. If she comes, that’s fine. If she does not – that’s also fine. That’s exactly the definition of wanting someone but not being needy. And I’m ok with that. But I’m not ok with not being able to smile. That’s just stupid.


The Male Archetypes in their Fullness

Warrior

Do something that scares you
Be more decisive
Quit seeking exits
Find your core values
Have a plan and purpose
Strengthen your resilience
Find out who you are loyal to
Establish and live via non-negotiable terms
Compete
Strengthen your discipline via habits and routine
Adopt a minimilist attitude
Take up a physical discipline e.g. martial arts

 

Magician

Commit to life long learning
Meditate
create more, consume less
work with your hands
take part in rites of passage
find a mentor
become a mentor
create a sangha
create a sacred space

King

Leave a legacy
Develop practical wisdom
Become a mentor
Find a mentor
Develop the virtue of order
Break away from you mother
Develop traits of true leadership
Establish your core values
Establish your core values
Develop a life plan
protect the sanctity of your ideas
become decisive
Avoid corruption
Live with integrity

Lover

Cultivate the virture of moderation
become fully present
find the centre of your bliss
Be spontaneous
work out what your lover needs

Which one depicts you? Of course, all four of them! Let that sink for a while.

What are the female archetypes? Well, nobody can decide. They say that it should be something like this:

Maiden/Virgin

Mother

Enchantress/Wild Woman/Lover

Queen/Wise Woman

PUA Scam

PUA Scam

Nowadays we have three major paths for men – PUA, The Red Pill and MGTOW.

RSD Tyler/Julien/Todd and the rest of their crew are a nicely cut fake scam artists. (just google “RSD faking infields” and do some research if their method works and check articles like this one ) If you ever tried their methods, you would knew what I’m saying. The only possibility of a quick make out exist if the girl is already after at least few drinks. And usually after few too many! Same with pulls. I don’t know about you, but I don’t find a lot of fun in sleeping with stinking smelly drunkards especially as I don’t drink at all anymore. So, the only way is the casual way. It takes hours out of your evening. It might be faster if you’re still in your 20s and partying in really big cities with like minded people.

If you keep stalking girls that are out just to be a little crazy and to have fun, you’d be blown out many, many times. From time to time you will get results but it’s just a numbers game. It’s not due to your “game” or some magic PUA skills. You will waste time, effort, money and your health – you can as well go to the good quality escort. You’ll get a similar dopamine rush before during and after. At least you can have better pre selection. 😉 Besides, go on and try to go out 3-4 times per week when having a normal day job and being in your middle 30s. It’s tiring. It’s pointless. It’s not that much of a fun, especially if you’re not a heavily extroverted person. And even if you are? I remember watching one video when RSD Tyler/Owen jokingly says that their business model was basically to outline the basics and then complicate them, and keep doing it so at the end the onion has so many layers that nobody knows what’s going on anymore. It works for clueless men who come to their seminars. 2k per one + millions of views on YT + thousands of dollars for their learning programs made them very rich indeed. Remember that sex won’t make you happy if your life is empty. If your life is empty, no woman would want to join your party, either. Owen likes to say that you should “ignore the negative energy” coming from a girl or better, ignore the negativity altogether. And stop listening to the voice in your head. Of course I agree that we shouldn’t overthink stuff too much, but saying that one should ignore your own intuitive voice is just stupid. After many years I’ve finally learnt how to get in touch with my own intuition and I won’t be dropping it anytime soon. Owen has a lot of good ideas that can be applied to a daily life, though. I don’t try to undermine that. Also he certainly posses a very magnetic persona – probably due to some personality issues. He confirmed this himself many times, by the way. Don’t forget that most people out there are just trying to sell you something and make themselves rich. The main point is that you don’t need their magic pills.

After three years…

Radical MGTOW version/way is, well, too radical… I am not impotent, I am not afraid of women, I don’t hate them, they like me and I like them. I have high sexual drive. I love sex and I love women who love sex. I won’t be pretending that’s not the case. We live in a very connected world and shutting myself away from any contact with the opposite gender doesn’t work for me. I don’t need to do this nor I want to do this, either.

So, what’s left? Well, the classical The Red Pill theory. After deep research of both PUA and MGTOW ways, I am going more towards TRP tradition now. And I must admit that Corey Wayne is still portraying the most balanced version of who I am becoming/want to become. His teachings lie somewhere between classical PUA, TRP and MGTOW. With a strong nudge towards TRP side that encourages short/medium term relationships but without radical absurdities of PUAs and monk-mode-MGTOWs.

Women are just women. We won’t change them. And they won’t change us. They are still better placed than us, because they can choose between beta “mangina” providers and alpha “IDGAF” fucks (or just between men believing in LTRs/Love/Kids/Marriage and ones that no longer believe in that bullshit) and that’s about it. We don’t have much choice. 😉 I don’t mind. I buy it. Life is short. Soon, all of us will be dead.

Life is  full of suffering. Yet, life is so beautiful. 

Forge through it. Find your own way.

Enjoy it while you can.

Love =/= Control?

Ultimately, we are all alone. And that’s fine.

And love is a scam. I am not talking about the universal cosmic love. That is something of far wider perspective. But our earthly, human love? It’s a scam. Biological imperative crafted by nature to maintain the continuity of human species.

We are being told that in order to love truly you need to love freely. To give freedom to the person that we love. But yet, at some another level, love also means control. And control means to worry. And you worry to lose someone you love because you care about them. And you can lose a person in many different ways. The feeling that a father has when his daughter slips into drug addiction? That hopeless realization that nothing can be done in order to save her? Yet, he tries to do it nevertheless. And only when he realizes there’s truly nothing he can do to help her, he quits. And gives up. It’s a tremendous sadness mixed with sorrow and grief. This is how I feel now. One of the people that were close to me, deliberately and stubbornly chooses the wrong path for herself. And just like in those books we’ve been told to never read, a small part of myself dies within. This is because a part of myself, of my heart, was living inside of her. And nothing can be done. After so many years of hard work and hope that one can recognize and change the bad habits. You can only save yourself. Other people don’t give a fuck about you or your hope to help them. They don’t want to be saved.

“I am happy only when I am unhappy”

Apparently a parent can never give up and leave his own child. Maybe some of them can. Maybe they do it only on the surface but deep down nothing is being resolved, and there’s no peace at heart. Ever. Maybe sometimes life throws us towards similar experiences, so that we can gain knowledge and recognize patterns.

But after every rainfall, there’s another breakthrough of clear weather. So, on one side I am asking myself “what the hell I am still doing here?” but on the other I know that soon everything will change for the better. For myself. Only for myself.

gergtgr

Mgtow.Co not coming back?

Over 100k! 

Welcome everyone. We’ve almost hit our 200 likes on our FB profile. If you consider controversial topics here that are often bordering on hate speech and misogyny, this is a nice achievement. In reality, we only exploit freedom of speech. Gladly, we can still have it around here. Also, we’ve hit over 63k visitors last year. Plus 58k from 2015, that makes exactly 96,391 people reading R.M.H. in the last two years. And when I add almost 10k that have already been here in 2017, we can proudly announce that 105,610 people were here since the launch. That’s beyond awesome. Thank you all. And btw, this is the 154 article published on Red Male Hummingbird. Some of them were better than others, but it’s nonetheless a huge amount.

100k

Fem Val

Female validation does nothing for me. You get a pat on the back if you do well. Literally. They come over, talk with you (expect to be entertained, so you joke back and forth and present masculine energy so that they can get their ‘ginas wet&tingle) and then they pat you on the back when going away. Or on a shoulder. This way they ‘claim‘ that they “approve” you and that other females should be jealous because you present some sort of value to the ones that “patted” you on the back. It’s really not about you. It’s about females showing other females how much fun they are getting out of you and how their value goes up because they are being around a real man. It’s phony and shallow. I mean I can get how it can be something valuable for some specific types of extroverted men looking for female validation, but somehow it does nothing for me. Fucking nothing. It’s just a burden. Am I ill, or what? Hahah.

I mean yeah, it feels nice but for me it’s just “I don’t care, leave me alone”. It only makes the whole environment expecting me to play this game harder and receive even more “pat-backs”. There’s no end to this! And one needs to spend 8 hours every day, 5 days per week at work. Social validation is so empty. Sigh.

mgtow
Mgtow.Co is down

For me personally it’s a huge disappointment. It was a good community. To kill it just like that without warning is a small insult. And a very sad story. Well, we will prevail anyway. Not the best move if you ask me. However, I do understand Alexander and his own reasons. But I always thought that MGTOW and male brotherhood is above politics.
im-not-like-the-other-girls-im-not-like-the-3028603

Random MGTOW Blurbs
A man strives to get direct mastery over things either by understanding them or by compulsion. But a woman is always and everywhere driven to indirect mastery, namely through a man; all her direct mastery being limited to him alone. Therefore it lies in woman’s nature to look upon everything only as a means for winning man, and her interest in anything else is always a simulated one, a mere roundabout way to gain her ends, consisting of coquetry and pretense.” — Arthur Schopenhauer, On Women

“The truths uncovered in this essay and many others is why I USE women for entertainment purposes only! They perform (sex, feminine company) or they are history.”

“I don’t love idealistically anymore but opportunistically like they do, the shattered remains of pedestals past serve only to remind me of the limited value that they bring to the relationship table.

“I have embraced male hypergamy and I’m always looking for an upgrade, I’ve even started shit testing THEM just for my amusement, I enjoy taking their hamsters for a ride.

They only play the “sexual retirement” card with betas, if she sees you as Alpha and her best option she will do whatever it takes to keep you around.

I don’t feel bad for using women this way because as much as we objectify them for their sexual allure, they objectify us for our utility value.

Even if she sees you as a “hawt” it’s still all about HER you are a reflection of her value, on display to her peers to affirm her position in the group.
You are still a utility even if If you achieve Alpha fucks status, they lack empathy and the ability to truly love anyone except maybe “their” children.

It’s not an accident that society conflates men’s servitude with qualities of adulthood – it’s the design.

As such, women begin to get nervous that their future provisioning and security are their own responsibility.”

From “Black Dragon Blog
Playdontpay comment from Rational Male blog:

“When men’s ambitions are centered on satisfying themselves and not about developing equity that’s useful to women, that’s when those men (and those who would encourage it) are shamed for not being an adult. They are shamed for not manning up or growing up to meet the needs of women and thus not living up to “adult responsibilities”.”
“Men have evolved to assess sexual availability of women and evaluate their fitness in the span of moments. This was a necessary evolutionary adaptation in the past in that it served men well to breed efficiently and evacuate quickly should a rival or monogamously paired man be in the vicinity to mate guard with violence. And this adaptation is also the result of women’s sexual strategy and predilection for making cuckolds of men.”

“This submission is a refutation of the title stated above and understanding the statement.
A post was recently made about how women are only fit to breed and provide sex ,and the title of this post was stated in the comment section. I find this very disturbing and disappointing that someone commenting on this sub would just make such a statement without any evidence or support.

The reasons why we don’t “treat everyone like human beings” are the reasons we found MGTOW. Treating everyone like human beings means treating everyone with respect regardless of age or gender. Furthermore, treating everyone with respect means having expectations that humans are inherently “good” or maybe “ok”; ie assuming they meet standards of decency and honor.

This gentleman also claims that he has female friends and they are “good” people(paraphrasing). Yes, women can be “good” to you as long as they are getting something in return;this also apply to some men. These kind of people only associate with people who can give them something of value at the very moment, once the value is gone, so are they(Women outweigh men in this). However, this is where men shine. Men will associate themselves with whomever they choose, regardless of what the individual brings to the table.”

“I am not dictating how one should live their life,This is just something I am placing on the table.From my little experiences and observations, the last thing you want to do as a MGTOW, as a man, is “treat everyone the same”, lest you’d be disappointing.”

Again “Black Dragon Blog“:

“Goals work. Affirmations work. Attitude works. Self talk works. Even when these things are negative. If you start believing and talking about how you’re going to be successful in life, then guess what? You’ll very likely be successful. If you start believing and talking that you’re going to die soon, then guess what?

Yeah. This stuff works both ways.

This is why you need to be very, very careful about what you believe, what you say, what you assume, and what you act on. When you say something negative about yourself, when you think something negative about yourself, it has real-world, external consequences to your life. Bad ones.

The problem is that you can’t see these consequences immediately. They take time to manifest. If you stab your own leg with a fork, you will see and feel immediate and terrible consequences. Therefore, I have a feeling you probably won’t do that.

But if you walk around thinking or saying “Women don’t like me” or “I’m ugly” or “I’m too short” or “I’m not good at making money” or “I’m a wimp” or “I’m a beta” or “I have oneitis” or “Women only like muscular guys” or “I can’t do that”, the negative consequences are just as real as stabbing yourself with a fork, except you can’t see them immediately. They take months or years to manifest, but trust me, they’ll manifest just the same.

Because nothing bad happens to you immediately, I have a feeling you’re believing or saying something negative about yourself right now. And if you are, you’re just as insane as the guy who stabs himself in the leg with a fork.”

Plus + Size

16406745_1369092303141201_4463637790890523473_n

 

Who the fuck would even touch this whale? And yet, women are lucky. Being with a fat woman is a fetish of so many men…

16422961_1365329776850787_2669760444692548499_o
Most of the girls were fat at least few times in their lives. You think from where they got stretch marks on their bellies, asses and legs? It is not some mystery disease that happens only to women.

16473847_1366432853407146_2625185229540764236_n

It happens because they didn’t care about themselves. It happens because they can get away with it. It happens because they are encouraged to not care about themselves.  It happens because they are still desired no matter how bad they look. Because they are lazy and careless.

 

16142555_1362855183764913_7778034699000580222_n

 

It happens because ugly whales like this can still get a string of males willing to serve them. Who the fuck would ever want to date such unattractive person? She’s HB4 at best.

During middle ages, she would be washing toilets. Nowadays, she’s some sort of social media star.

World has gone mad.